Yesterday Mr accompanied me to do the "big" scan to make sure the baby's major organs are fine.. and much to my surprise, able to see the genitals.. and the gynae without any difficulties, could easily tell us whether is a prince or princess.. the first sentence he said was "See, you can see there is a "V" here which means is a FEMALE" and so, he typed FEMALE on the photo. The whole scanning we really catch no balls on what the gynae is describing when he keeps asking us to see this see that, the only thing I can see was her Nostrils, eye sockets and hands! among other many things like blood vessels, spine, bones, placenta.. etc.. very complicated and "CHIM". The only worrying thing, is when he said there is some crysts in her brain fluid.. which will disappears in the 26th week, ask us not to worry, but I didnt ask further what if it doesn't? maybe I will go check it up on the web instead..
After which, went to see my usual gynae, and she let us hear the heartbeat.. and the sound the baby will make when she moved. And first sentence she asked me was "can you feel her moving" then I was like "Huh? Cannot leh! how to know if she is moving?" She replied "It feels like something is fluttering inside".. I tot over, maybe is THAT! Sometimes i will feel like something in my stomach like a bubble burst feeling.. I tot was wind.. maybe is the baby moving as mentioned by Dr Tan.. Hmmm.. Dunno.. :)
Overall, this checkup was fine for me.. but suddenly got a bit of mixed feelings.. cos Mr always wanted a prince.. and I also wondered who else in our families wanted a prince but didnt dare to say it.. only giving the usual excuse, girl or boy doesn't matter as long as baby is healthy. Really don't know what will happen when princess is out, whether will she get the same treatment as if I now have a prince. Maybe if I get a prince, all the guys can play with him? but anyway now think so much also no use, fact has become a fact unless the gynae made a mistake which I doubt so. Just wanna our princess to be healthy and cute.. Time to change the posters to a baby girl! :)
And any name suggestions feel free...
From Mr, as long as she's healthy I'm very happy. I'm sure she will turn out to be outstanding. Time to prepare for photo taking. ^ ^
Monday, July 30, 2007
Sunday, July 15, 2007
Weekends to Batu to celebrate Mr's grandma's birthday. As usual the whole big family gathered.. and as usual, attention is all on Mr's cousin's baby boy. He was cute.. and typically active, but I guess all babies are like this, when they can move, they will try to kick and kick their foot even when drinking milk.
Looking at the baby and the others who are humouring and teasing the baby to make him laugh.. I was thinking to myself, how come I just cant be like them? What will happen when my baby is out? Will I ever make him/her laugh and tease and humour him/her like others? Maybe I am just not too open or not very good with kids yet.. Felt so sad.. but will try to learn.. Hopefully the others will help me to do the humouring and teasing to my baby.. Hehe.. I know for sure will be Cheryl and Charmaine.. Hahaz..
Another cousin of Mr is super noisy and super hyperactive and super.. which I know for sure cannot tahan such kids.. I would not like my kids to be like this, cos it will irriate alot of people and offend alot of people as well.. Due to he is the only boy and youngest in his family, his parents naturally spoilt him and ended up with him having such behaviour.. then tots come to my mind.. "It's really traditional and confirmed that all families wanted to have a boy and all attention will be on boys.. and girls will be neglected." For me, I felt that this thinking is totally wrong, whether is boy or girl, is still our flesh and blood and all needs to be doted on and not biased against. I was still telling Mr's sis that if my kid is like that, I will really smack him infront of people, cos I don't want people to point fingers or think that this kid has no good upbringing. But again, not to be rude, I felt that it might just be the country one lives in or the culture of the family..
Said so much, hopefully I can properly bring up my own kid who will be coming to this world soon..
Looking at the baby and the others who are humouring and teasing the baby to make him laugh.. I was thinking to myself, how come I just cant be like them? What will happen when my baby is out? Will I ever make him/her laugh and tease and humour him/her like others? Maybe I am just not too open or not very good with kids yet.. Felt so sad.. but will try to learn.. Hopefully the others will help me to do the humouring and teasing to my baby.. Hehe.. I know for sure will be Cheryl and Charmaine.. Hahaz..
Another cousin of Mr is super noisy and super hyperactive and super.. which I know for sure cannot tahan such kids.. I would not like my kids to be like this, cos it will irriate alot of people and offend alot of people as well.. Due to he is the only boy and youngest in his family, his parents naturally spoilt him and ended up with him having such behaviour.. then tots come to my mind.. "It's really traditional and confirmed that all families wanted to have a boy and all attention will be on boys.. and girls will be neglected." For me, I felt that this thinking is totally wrong, whether is boy or girl, is still our flesh and blood and all needs to be doted on and not biased against. I was still telling Mr's sis that if my kid is like that, I will really smack him infront of people, cos I don't want people to point fingers or think that this kid has no good upbringing. But again, not to be rude, I felt that it might just be the country one lives in or the culture of the family..
Said so much, hopefully I can properly bring up my own kid who will be coming to this world soon..
Sunday, July 8, 2007
Mr's first time blogging here. Haha.
Today have to wake up at 8:00a.m. So early for a Saturday.. No choice. Have to go to Thomson Medical Centre for Mrs's checkup. Pretty excited because going to get to see how much our mbb has grown. mbb = mini bb(my wife nickname). Mr = BB, Mrs = bb & our small product = mbb. Complicated isn't it? Nope.
The morning was very rush as I got to drop my mum off at Novena first because today is the opening of one of her friend's kopitiam. After bathing, we move off at 8:45am.
Wah so late already.... Need to get to Thomson by 9 am for appointment. Along the way, we saw a bridal car. Oh Ya! tdy is 070707. Such a unique day to get married. Heard got 700++ pple getting married tdy in Singapore. As fast as I could, after dropping Mum off at Novena, we reached TMC at 9:10. Dropped Mrs off first at dropping point and went to the car park. It was the first time I drove into the car park here. There was this person who asked me to get off. I thought wat was happening.. Then I realised its Valet Parking. Haha. So Pai Seh. Thought he was going to rob me or what. :x. After giving the key to the person, I went in to find Mrs. Along the way, I see so many preggies. Some are so big that I wonder how Mrs will cope with the stomach being so big. Will she topple?
Then we waited for around 30 mins before we went on inside for our appointment with Dr. Tan. Mrs prepared a list to ask the doctor as to what she can eat such as chilled drinks, ice-cream, green tea & etc. Reason being- I have been restricting her on all these. If doctor say ok then I'm fine with it. But in the end, we did not use the list at all. Mrs memorized all i guess. Haha. Dr. Tan says she can drink some chilled drinks & Green Tea and some ice-cream but moderate. I can see Mrs so happy with the answer. Overall, the baby is healthy. Is Now 10 CM long. I can see his/her palm and legs still developing. Today never see him/her do somersaunts or flips, guess the baby is sleeping. We still do not know the gender yet. Hopefully can know it by the next appointment.
We went to take our car at the Valet Parking Counter. Man.. the queue was long. So we went to walk around TMC while waiting for our car to come out. Den we heard a mother singing to her baby. I find it quite amusing but couldn't laugh out loud. Maybe when mbb comes out, I will be the one doing that. OMG!! I'll get Mrs to do that. :P
After taking the car, we proceed to Whampoa for brunch. We had Wanton Mee. Then bought lunch for my sister and her future hubby. Then went to fetch my mum from the kopitiam.
To be continued...
Today have to wake up at 8:00a.m. So early for a Saturday.. No choice. Have to go to Thomson Medical Centre for Mrs's checkup. Pretty excited because going to get to see how much our mbb has grown. mbb = mini bb(my wife nickname). Mr = BB, Mrs = bb & our small product = mbb. Complicated isn't it? Nope.
The morning was very rush as I got to drop my mum off at Novena first because today is the opening of one of her friend's kopitiam. After bathing, we move off at 8:45am.
Wah so late already.... Need to get to Thomson by 9 am for appointment. Along the way, we saw a bridal car. Oh Ya! tdy is 070707. Such a unique day to get married. Heard got 700++ pple getting married tdy in Singapore. As fast as I could, after dropping Mum off at Novena, we reached TMC at 9:10. Dropped Mrs off first at dropping point and went to the car park. It was the first time I drove into the car park here. There was this person who asked me to get off. I thought wat was happening.. Then I realised its Valet Parking. Haha. So Pai Seh. Thought he was going to rob me or what. :x. After giving the key to the person, I went in to find Mrs. Along the way, I see so many preggies. Some are so big that I wonder how Mrs will cope with the stomach being so big. Will she topple?
Then we waited for around 30 mins before we went on inside for our appointment with Dr. Tan. Mrs prepared a list to ask the doctor as to what she can eat such as chilled drinks, ice-cream, green tea & etc. Reason being- I have been restricting her on all these. If doctor say ok then I'm fine with it. But in the end, we did not use the list at all. Mrs memorized all i guess. Haha. Dr. Tan says she can drink some chilled drinks & Green Tea and some ice-cream but moderate. I can see Mrs so happy with the answer. Overall, the baby is healthy. Is Now 10 CM long. I can see his/her palm and legs still developing. Today never see him/her do somersaunts or flips, guess the baby is sleeping. We still do not know the gender yet. Hopefully can know it by the next appointment.
We went to take our car at the Valet Parking Counter. Man.. the queue was long. So we went to walk around TMC while waiting for our car to come out. Den we heard a mother singing to her baby. I find it quite amusing but couldn't laugh out loud. Maybe when mbb comes out, I will be the one doing that. OMG!! I'll get Mrs to do that. :P
After taking the car, we proceed to Whampoa for brunch. We had Wanton Mee. Then bought lunch for my sister and her future hubby. Then went to fetch my mum from the kopitiam.
To be continued...
Wednesday, July 4, 2007
Today me and Mr went for lunch together and dropped by Raffles place clifford Center to look at baby posters which he mentioned there are.. Indeed there are! All so cute but of cos we didn't get the ang mohs one.. Mr prefer Asian.. And we bought only 2.. and they already cost us $7.. Ex right.. just for 2 paper like poster.. Hehehe.. now very money conscious man!
Today is a very busy day for me! When I reached office, everyone seemed to bombard me.. cases and calls telling me "Yvonne, my boss lost his Treo, what should I do?" Hate it! Why bosses like to lose Treo! And cases keep coming, and my irritating boss like to ask me stupid questions and I got so fed up and answered him in a very attitude way and do my own work. He really get on my nerves always!! I think is very hard for me to get happy and light spirit working here, hardly can breathe and inside me keep scolding bad words, and these few days I kept getting Indian cases.. I wonder will my little one be affected and come out scolding bad words??? So afraid.. but what to do! My line, I cant keep happy and light spirit!!! Help!
Only when I get home, Mr is there to make me laugh and I get real tired and just want to lie on the bed and sleep and doing nothing.. now the room is in a mess, always wanted to help to clear up but tired is always on me... WHY!! And even bad dreams every night.. Am I being stressed???
Today is a very busy day for me! When I reached office, everyone seemed to bombard me.. cases and calls telling me "Yvonne, my boss lost his Treo, what should I do?" Hate it! Why bosses like to lose Treo! And cases keep coming, and my irritating boss like to ask me stupid questions and I got so fed up and answered him in a very attitude way and do my own work. He really get on my nerves always!! I think is very hard for me to get happy and light spirit working here, hardly can breathe and inside me keep scolding bad words, and these few days I kept getting Indian cases.. I wonder will my little one be affected and come out scolding bad words??? So afraid.. but what to do! My line, I cant keep happy and light spirit!!! Help!
Only when I get home, Mr is there to make me laugh and I get real tired and just want to lie on the bed and sleep and doing nothing.. now the room is in a mess, always wanted to help to clear up but tired is always on me... WHY!! And even bad dreams every night.. Am I being stressed???
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