Inconsiderate man!

Today I went to work alone as Mr need to reach office early, and as usual the train is forever crowded at 8.30am at Clementi. And I missed 3 trains before I can board a less crowded train. When I got in, I got nothing to hold on, though there is one bar infront of me and I just cannot hold it, U KNOW WHY? There is one inconsiderate man leaning against it, and hugging it as if he is a koala bear hugging on the tree! So irritating I really want to scold him, I even try to put my hand infront of him and yet he just act blur didn't see it. Stupid man! And then there is one woman who came in also, and see him like koala bear and she got no choice to stand without holding like me.. then he alighted in commonwealth and comes in another man, and he got the feeling of lying on the stand again, and I quickly put my hands there, but still there is one instance he lie his butt on the stand. I hack care and just put my hand there still, if his back touched my hand, I think I will use my sharp nails and poke him! Haha.. Though I know I am bad, but they are worst! Can't they see a preggie??? I just really cannot stand the KOALA BEAR!! Argh..

Hmm.. it has been some time since I blogged here, cos only once every month then I can get to see my little one..

But anyway, 2 days ago, I had a funny yet warm encounter.. before I off work, an article caught my eyes, it said being pregnant has many benefits such as like people will hold the doors for you, smile at you, being happy for you etc.. Then when I was on my down to the lobby, a lady was rushing past me and into the lift, and she asked me in Chinese if I wanna take the lift and I ran a bit and she said no rush I will wait for you (but she seemed to be in a rush if not she won't be running into the lift right?) Then in the lift, suddenly she say in Chinese again, I will wait for you one, and CONGRATS! OOoh... suddenly I felt so touched, this is the first time in a lift a stranger said congrats to me! Abit kind of embarrassed as well.. hehe.. but she is from the same company as me but different floors.. But anyway I felt happy as well, many has started to notice about the changes in me and started to ask if I am expecting! Hehe.. I guess there is nothing to hide about it.. Feel happy and enjoy the process..

And yes, yesterday while chatting with an ex-colleague of mine, he is too becoming a father soon, and getting married next month, and the due date of their baby was almost near to mine, a week later than mine, and also a GIRL. I was surprised but actually not really, I suspected it.. but I was quite upset that I was telling his wife about my baby etc, and was hoping that she can shared hers too but I only get to know from her husband.. complicated.. But I can understand, sometimes girls are shy about it and don't wish to talk about it but guys are more open to such matter cos being a father is great! Sounds great and happy! Haha. But I really hope that 4 of us can go shopping for baby stuffs, share info, etc, as u know, being first time and no friends are preggies, it is really a lost when you do not know what to get, what to eat, who to share with.. but still, I must say to them, CONGRATS!

Last night, after work, me and Mr rushed home, and went swimming with my new swimsuit! hehe.. but he has to go back to JE to get his trunks. Then we came back to Clementi to swim.. by the time, the sky is dark and when we got into the water, lightnings struck, thunder roared. And start to drizzle.. but we went on swimming until rain seem to get bigger and lightnings becoming more.. The sight of rain dropping when u looked up is nice, like snow.. but we gave up swimming and went up. Mr asked me, is it the older we get, the less bravery we become.. haha.. I replied back fast "Cos we have a bigger responsibility now!" I tot back, and yes, I now don't even dare to do illegal crossing of roads.. cos of my little girl, do not want anything to happen to her... :o) So mummy will protect you! woooh. Sounds so weida! Hehe..

Next Sat, we can get to see her after waiting for a month! Wonder how she has been doing in there..

Her first kick..

Yesterday night I was watching tv lying down.. then as usual I will put my hands over the lower stomach then suddenly I feel a series of "bubbles popping" feeling inside.. which is abit unusual that those I usually feel.. is like a series.. So I quickly ask Mr to touch but the moment he touched, it stopped. Until the second time he touched again, he can FEEL it! The feeling is quite strong, like a "flick" inside the stomach. Very shen qi! Then he told dad the baby can kick one, then dad replied was OF COS LA! Baby so big liao, of cos know how to kick la! haha..

Sometimes make me wonder how come baby will kick inside and wanna kick.. but the feeling is really miraculous.. I like it.. Hope she can kick more.. then I can let everyone feel it.. hehe.. to share the joy.. hehe..

Finally being noticed..

Today, little do I expect, an Indian guy gave up his seat to me!

As usual, ever since I got little princess, I always soothe and rub my stomach, it has like become a mandate action for me. So when I was soothing my stomach, this Indian guy seated one seat away infront of me saw it, and he immediately stand up and let me have his seat, I was STUNNED! And SHY! Then when I was going to sit down, I can sense all eyes on me and the lady beside me, somehow like stared at my little stomach to make sure I am pregnant.. I felt so really embarrassed.. wish he didnt let me have his seat, I rather remained standing. Though it seemed to be funny enough, maybe next time when I on the train, I should do the same action so I can have seats most of the time. Haha! :P

Funny yet embarassing incident..

This morning me and Mr as usual went to work together, and when the train reached BV, there is seat infront of me. Mr asked me to sit.. But I knew behind me there was another preggie standing, her stomach is bigger than mine of cos, then when I was seated, the lady beside the preggie asked me to let the preggie have the seat, I wanted to in the beginning but Mr asked me to sit lah! So I stood up and asked her if she want to have the seat after the lady beside her asked me, and without any delay Mr spoke "She's also pregnant" Then 4 of us was like "creating" a show in the train.. the preggie immediately replied "Oh, you have the seat, yours is more young" Then the lady beside her "Sorry I got no idea she is pregnant also" Then dunno why I felt so embarrassed, then I wondered in this scenario who should be the one who is embarrassed? the lady besides her? cos she wanted to help end up she approached the wrong person(me). Anyway, the ah ma beside me stood up and gave up her seat to the preggie as she is alighting soon. So pai seh.. But happy Mr "fought" the seat for me and princess, but I really don't mind not having to sit down and let the seat to others.. I am fine cos I still managed with the current size.. :) I wonder will the same situation happen again.. hehe.. wish I can just take a private transport.. trains always crowded..

And yes, me and Mr was thinking what English names to give our princess last week, and my little cousin, Charmaine was so excited when she knew I got a baby girl and told me must named like her beginning with "Char".. Before I told Charmaine, I was thinking about names like Charlene, Charlotte, Ashlyn, Alexis (suggested by another cousin of mine), Samantha (means Happy but my aunt say don't wan la, not very soothing to ears, even Charmaine agree), but overall I still like Charlene or Charlotte or Ashlyn, but Mr always counter attack me that this name that name sounds like Blah blah blah.. >:( Ended up, he wanted to name princess EDA TAN(means Happy and Wealthy) and he stood by this name.. Argh.. To me, it sounds like one of those property agent.. and the look of a auntie.. Dunno why... hehe.. Anyway we will wait till she is born and see what her chinese name will be and pick an english name which rhyme with it...